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Mommy Confidence | 3 Tips to help You Show Up More Confidently as a Mom

1. Prioritize your self care.

Actually make the time to pour in to yourself.  You “make the time” by taking a real look at your current schedules (plural because you have multiple schedules when you consider your spouse and your kids),  identifying “pockets of time” (or a moment to get away on days off, early mornings, during nap time…etc), and then scheduling the time  for yourself (actually writing it down is a game changer).    I am a firm believer in SCHEDULING  time for myself and embracing the “mini moments” to fill my cup spiritually, emotionally, physically, mentally and relationally.  Spending time with Jesus, therapy, sun filled walks, sitting in silence in the car, daily affirmation using God’s word, lunch with friends, doing whatever makes you look and feel your best (my fave)…etc. It all counts! Whether 30 minutes, or a full weekend… Prioritize pouring into yourself!

2. Identify your own specific needs.

From childcare, to home schooling… being a working mom, mompreneur, corporate mom or SAHM… to  Hiring a chef, or a house keeper, or investing in the equipment to handle it yourself… get super clear about what you need and find your OWN FLOW! All schedules, routines, systems and lifestyles ARE NOT created equal. One size DOES NOT fit all. So you must get super clear about what you need. When you’re doing what’s best for you and your family, and let go of the need for approval from others… chiiii…. that’s freedom!

3. Ask for and accept support!

The more I do this work the more I realize that most moms feels overwhelmed and lack confidence as moms because they are trying to do it all by themselves. And sadly so many moms say that even with their best efforts, they feel like they’re falling short. Momma, let me free you with this NEWSFLASH… there’s no special reward or extra stimulus check coming because you’re trying to DO IT ALL BY YOURSELF!  Running yourself into the ground, is played out.  Believe me I speak from experience… Ask for support, accept it and allow those trusted loved ones (family, friends and YOUR HUSBAND) to pour into your life!

When you prioritize yourself as a mom, you show up more confidently, present and grounded as a mom, in your marriage, in your home and career! All the areas that matter most to you are impacted by how you care for yourself. So, take care… and prioritize yourself!

 

 

 

 

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Mommy Life

Align & Elevate | My Take-aways from the #Knownlive2021 Experience

Last weekend I had the pleasure of being the EMCEE at the #knownlive2021 conference at the Porsche Experience Center in Atlanta.

My Girl, Christina (@christinajoywhittaker),  curated an experience that brought together high achieving women who were READY to position themselves to BE KNOWN beyond the four walls of their organization!

Typically as an emcee I am there to work. Yes, I often enjoy myself,  but during #KnownLive2021, I found myself leaning in more than ever to glean from the speakers and the attendees.  The depth of conversation, work and transformation… was unlike any other conference I’ve ever attended.  And I’ve been to several. Nothing quite came close to this experience.

As I made my way around the room, I couldn’t help but to pause as the moms in the room shared their stories. They each in their own way, made it very clear that becoming a mom was a defining moment in their lives, and has been the ever present fuel that keeps them going and reaching for that “next level”.

These beautiful and successful mommas,  also spoke of  how important it was for them to prioritize themselves in order to thrive at home and in their careers.  From the things they’ve mastered, to lessons learned… these women spoke from the heart.

In what other conference would you hear senior level executives, Doctors and Lawyers share so openly and candidly  about their experiences?  #Knownlive2021 was everything I didn’t even know I needed, and confirmed so much of what I already know to be true!

When we acknowledge what we need as women, and prioritize ourselves with those needs in mind,  we are then able to  show up more confidently in the areas the matter most… in our homes, our marriages, in our careers and businesses. 

I took this as a personal “God Wink” that the work I’m called to do and the thought leadership I’m called to trailblaze is needed for such a time as this.

It’s time to align with our God given purpose, activate and use our voices like never before and ELEVATE!

It’s Time to be Known!

 

 

 

I want to hear from you!  Whether a working momma, mompreneur, or SAHM… How are you prioritizing yourself?  Share with me on social media…@Reese__Dennis

 

 

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